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Summer in the Trees

If one listens carefully, they may hear the mystical sound of an afternoon breeze dancing among the trees.

The trees shimmer and sway high above. Leaves shifting, restlessly waving for those who watch.

Branches creak, limbs twist and turn as the embers of summer light push past.

Leaves lean forward, back and sideways all in one swirling motion. Like beads of natures rattle, they follow and chase. There is a rush, a silence as they curl and flutter to this chaotic mantra. Like breath, there is a rise and fall, the sound of delicate harmony.

This breath (or breeze) brings with it strength and weakness, alignment as well as a distraction.

Moments pass together without the need to organize. The magic of one leaf becomes many to sing this afternoon song.

I often like joining this wonderful orchestra and whistle along with summer in the trees.

By Tom Kelly

Quote of the Day

If you awoke today “thinking,” I have a lot to do. Maybe “thinking,” I have too much to do today.

Remove “thinking” and replace with “presence” and rephrase. You will witness a very different experience as you allow rather than work to control an outcome.

“I enjoy this new day moment by moment. Everything I bring my attention to is special and exciting.  I witness each new breath through the eyes of a child, allowing whatever “is” to be as it is.”

Get Grounded

Getting Grounded

It doesn’t matter who you are, there will always be a reason to ground yourself and for those of us who are sensitive or empaths staying grounded is even more important.

Being ungrounded even to a minor degree can make one feel off-kilter, scattered and just not in their body. If ungrounded for long periods, one might even feel unwell or disconnected from the world around them.

There is a reason people feel great when at the beach or walking in nature. This is due to negative ions and the effect they have on us. When you breathe in air that’s charged full of negative ions, stress levels are reduced, a positive mood is created, and the levels of serotonin increase (which helps reduce feelings of depression and lethargy).

Recently I had a healing session and one of the comments made post-treatment was to find ways to get and stay grounded. So even for someone who looks at my own energy closely, I had become ungrounded if even is just slightly.

Day to day life does not always afford us the opportunity to go to the beach or walk in a forest, so I have created a grounding meditation (below) to get you grounded quickly and listed helpful tools to help keep you grounded.

Just doing some form of grounding during or at the end of your day will help you feel inspired and connected with mother earth, leaving the door open for you to create and expand your life. Any type of energy treatment (such as Reiki or Crystal Healing) is certainly a great way to ground. Everyone will find their best way to get grounded. My favorite and I’m guess I’m not alone on this would be number seventeen (happy grounding). You can also listen to this mediation @ Hearthstone Healing YouTube Channel!

Things to help you get and stay grounded

  1. Meditate
  2. Get close to a tree (touch it)
  3. Go for a walk (anywhere)
  4. Eat more root vegetables
  5. Use Crystals to Ground  (tiger’s eye, garnet, hematite, onyx and or copper.)
  6. Sit near stream or river
  7. Breathe in fresh air
  8. Cook a meal from scratch
  9. Use essential oils such as; sandalwood, cedarwood,
  10. Cuddle an animal
  11. Do yard work
  12. Get physical with exercise
  13. Lay in the sun
  14. Drink lots of water and ensure your salt intake is adequate
  15. Disconnect from technology
  16. Pamper your physical body (have a sea salt bath)
  17. Have sex (with yourself or with someone else)
  18. Have a real conversation
  19. Go sit somewhere in nature
  20. Listen to earthy music
  21. Create your own music
  22. Write
  23. Cry

How Culture Influences Aging

After studying centenarians all over the world, Mario Martinez has found that cultural and spiritual beliefs are more significant than genetics when it comes to health and longevity. He sits down with Steve Paikin to discuss how his theory can be applied in practice.

Dr. Mario Martinez, author of “The Mind Body Code” offers great insight into how our bodies age in response to culture and lifestyle.

Click Here to watch the full (20 minute) interview from a recent broadcast on TV Ontario’s The Agenda.

 

 

“Tick” season has begun. Here are some tips to help you enjoy nature, understanding the reality of Lyme Disease

Ticks are not something most people are used to talking about but with Eastern Ontario a hotbed for tick activity and cases of Lyme Disease it’s so important to fully understand the reality we are living with. Let’s face it, if you like the outdoors even just a little bit or have a pet that leaves the confines of your home this article is for you! And by all means, don’t stop here, get as much information as you can and share with friends, family and me.

As I said, ticks are gross and I know having met them up close and personal. I was out walking a trail in late November five years ago and was bundled up, tucked in, I had a baseball hat on with a hoodie over that, my shirts (3) and coat done up right to neck, pants were tucked, shirt sleeves and coat covered the light gloves I was wearing (I was bundled up and warm) . I was walking with our dog and recall only once crouching down to untangle his leash. At home just a couple hours later I peeled off my warm clothes and changed my shirt. On my belly was a deer tick and it had already attached firmly to me (ya, first impression “this if fucking gross”) As I went to remove the tick I realized he/she was not going to come off easily, so I looked up the removal procedure and quite easily had the tick off. I put it in a plastic bag and put it in the freezer. The following day I stopped by my family doctors office and was examined, then they arranged to send the tick to Winnipeg for testing. It was determined that I would await test results and treatment if required would begin. By the end of that week, I was called and the tick that rode home with me during my walk had tested negative for Lyme (good news).

  

Here are couple images of a deer tick (one shown feeding). Remember there are other kinds of ticks and all should be addressed in the same way (with caution).

My encounter with a tick defied logic. It had been below zero at night for weeks and yet a tick lived, got through all my clothing and made its way onto my tummy. Even the people I spoke to who track tick behavior were surprised, thinking they would have died off for the season long before my encounter, but they hadn’t. So if ticks are living in colder months like November and it’s now Aprill, these tiny pests will be with us for at least the next 7 months so we need to be prepared!

Getting out into nature is critical for all of us in the summer months and we can do this carefully. The best defense is knowledge and awareness, but keep in mind that I found a tick on my tummy but they will attach just about anywhere so you really need to look yourself over carefully! Yes, check between your toes!

If you are hiking with your partner you can help each out by looking the other one over, it might end up being your post-hike excitement! We’ve got to find a way to make coexisting with these gross little bugs fun!

Tick Tips!

Grass

The easiest thing you can do is to keep your yard and outdoor living space trimmed. Cut grass low (ticks love long grass) and remove piles of leaves and other debris. This will automatically reduce your chances of having ticks in your yard.

Add a fence

It’s important to ensure pets don’t bring ticks into your yard and home, one of the most common ways that humans get tick bites. The best thing to do is ensure pets that live in the home with you do not roam in wooded areas. Installing a fence or keeping pets confined only to yard areas that are mowed short is one of the single most important things you can do to decrease human exposure to Lyme.

Groom pets

Daily brushing and inspecting your pet for ticks is important. After they’ve been through an area where ticks might inhabit check your pet before bringing them into your home. This will help prevent ticks from catching a ride into your living space. Keeping pets out of bedrooms and off of furniture during tick season (late spring, all summer & early fall) will decrease the chance that you or your family members will get a tick bite after a tick has dropped off a pet. Talk to your veterinarian for more strategies on keeping ticks off of your family pet.

Use Cedar Oil as a natural tick deterrent

It’s easy to holistically and naturally repel ticks.

Simply spray exposed skin with cedar oil. Cedar oil is safe, all natural and removes the need for DEET or other toxic chemicals that cause neuronal cell death. Cedar oil also repels flying insects! Spray directly on skin, pets, around doorways and porches and windows, it’s safe to use directly on the skin.

Tick check

Even after doing the first 5 tips, you still need to physically double check your body for ticks every time you are outside. Throughout the day and prior to bathing, double check your body, groin, armpits, scalp, hair, and clothing for ticks. Going directly into a shower after spending time outside is the best way to make sure ticks don’t drop off into your home or stay attached to you long enough to transmit Lyme.

If you can detect a tick before it anchors on, you’ve just prevented transmission entirely. You can strip off clothing and place directly into the wash after working outside, then hop in a shower to wash up.

Tuck in hair “Pony up”

Wear long sleeves and pants whenever possible to help keep ticks from reaching your skin… tucking in your shirt at the waist and if possible tucking pants legs into your socks.

Put long hair into a ponytail, bun, or even better — tucking it all up under a hat is a very easy way to cut your risk of tick bites dramatically because ticks love to grab onto long hair when walking through long grasses and wooded areas.

Use Your Dryer

Simply running your clothes, bedding, towels, garden gloves, hiking boots, etc… through your dryer will kill any ticks you don’t see.  All it takes is one hour tumbling on high heat (or 90 min on low heat) and even fabrics or shoes that you can’t wash or get wet can still have all the ticks removed and killed just by a spin through your dryer. And if you are on a vacation, especially vacations with hiking or lots of time spent outdoors or to wooded areas, try to stay in hotels or cabins with dryers. Let your clothes take a tumble while you do a tick check and grab a shower and you have gone a long way to preventing Lyme disease entirely!

If prevention fails and you do have a tick bite from an infected tick, getting treated for Lyme disease immediately is the best thing you can do to prevent long-term “sequelae” from becoming an issue.

So what do you do if you are bitten by a tick?

Remove the tick

Gently and firmly remove the tick with tweezers as close to the skin as possible (not squeezing the body of the tick, which may help enable the bacteria to squirt into your bloodstream) and most importantly: save the tick. You can also use thread (in a loop) to slip over the tick and bring down to the level of your skin, tightening the loop and carefully pulling in a direction that allows the head to slid out easily.

Test the tick so you know if it carried Lyme or not — this can give you instant peace of mind!

It is infinitely easier to get a tick tested than wait and see if you become infected with Lyme. First of all, human Lyme tests can be inaccurate and delay prompt treatment. Second, the myriad of symptoms for Lyme disease (as we will discuss next) is a great mimicker for hundreds of other illnesses and there is no one reliable way to diagnose Lyme through symptoms. And lastly, Lyme treatments become much less effective as time goes on. So submitting a tick for testing (place the tick in a plastic bag with a moist paper towel) and give it to your local physician is the best way to know if you need Lyme prevention treatment or not.

Or you can simply head over to tick report.com to have a tick directly tested.

This is a service that allows you to send a tick directly to a lab and have results emailed back to you within three days. It may be preferable to go directly to your family physician, who can give you an antibiotic to have on hand to take immediately if the results do come back positive for Lyme.

It’s important to note that less than half of people who contract Lyme disease actually have the classic bull’s eye rash reaction at the bite site. So don’t get caught waiting to this marker to show up!

Of course, if you see a bullseye rash, report this immediately to your physician.

Symptoms of Lyme are more insidious and actually more common. Symptoms like: fever, joint pain or swelling, muscle pain and weakness, irritability, headache, mood changes, increased susceptibility to other infections (as your immune system compromises over time) and most common: fatigue.

So testing a tick and getting immediate antibiotic treatment for Lyme is the best thing you can do to prevent chasing vague symptoms like fatigue and headache for years to come.

Boost Your Immune System

What can you do while you wait for tick test results?

Starting some immune boosting supplements is always a good idea after a tick bite while you are waiting for tick test results.

My favorite is Vit D, Vit C, Probiotics, and an Immune Boosting Supplement called Quick Defense by Innate Resources. Boost your immunity with supplements right after any suspected exposure will give you a head start in treating Lyme before it’s even had time to express symptoms.

Now that you are armed with a ton of very effective holistic tips on avoiding tick bites and decreasing your chance of developing Lyme disease (plus a few tips to help speed recovery)

It’s time to wish you a very happy upcoming summer!

By Tom Kelly (with a little help from my friend, Laura Koniver MD)

Being In Flow

There will always be something to hold you back if you allow it. It is easy to get caught playing this game, as so many of us do.

However, what happens when we open ourselves to what is possible, saying no to all restrictions?

Here is how I sometimes see flow and use it to inspire me!

I will use musicians, as I feel a connection to the path they are on, but all truly creative souls flux in the same way.

Bob Dylan and Neil Young come to mind as they full honored their gifts and put that “gift” ahead of everything else. They openly nurture what seems right in the moment regardless of the waves they might create by doing so.

Dylan talks about not knowing who wrote: “Like a Rolling Stone.” Of course, he wrote this song, but he never stopped long enough to evaluate its evolution or admire it. Dylan was already connecting to a new moment, holding space for something to play into this openness.

After Young released the album “Harvest” in 1972 everyone looked to him, even expected him to write another Harvest record. Young immediately stepped away from his association with Harvest knowing he could not revisit it. He broke away from tours and commitments allowing space for what would come next.

Both Young and Dylan have been writing and playing their music for decades and what brought them success was letting go of a need to stay the same or repeat themselves. It is clear both artists consider “success” more about being open to what would appear to them next not sales or recognition.

Honoring their gift both artists would both transmute all distractions and create freely. Young has said, “if something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t right” and would stop a project or tour midstream. It was not his intention to piss people off but rather fully engage the truth of each moment.

Both artists consider the first cuts of a recording the best and do not work at polishing their work, knowing what came to them quickly and freely was best.

Their mission was to hold space for something unknown. To have the guts to back away from what was forced and not flowing freely. Being passionate and open to all that came to them was what mattered.

This is how all magnificent things in life come to be.

Stevie Ray Vaughan played lead guitar on David Bowie’s 1983 hit record “Lets Dance” but then refused to tour. It bothered Bowie but deep down he understood the decision. Vaughan had his own thing to do and in making that decision honored his “gift.” In sharing his gift, Vaughan brought blues music to new heights in the eighties leaving a creative tattoo on music rarely seen.

One might think, “I am not creative like Dylan or Young,” so why pretend this is me.

The honest answer is that Dylan and Young did not know their creative potential at some point in time either. It was something they grew to understand by daring to say no to the easy answer, and in turn, found something much greater.

Being in flow is not easy. It means stepping away from what is familiar, daring to let the breeze blow and the dust fly.

We all need to look closely at what motivates us, what calls us to act. The idea of holding space for the magnificent far outweighs settling for the mundane.

This is being in flow.

By Tom Kelly

Falling into Grace

Sometimes we set out to do something and slowly but very surely realize that the universe has another plan. When this happens “we” need to be able to let an expectation go. It would be nice if everything we “expected” of ourselves was possible, but the human mind often traps a reasonable goal within an unreasonable wall of expectation. The result is a lack of supporting energy which takes us out of flow. If we step back and realign there is an immediate strengthening. We then have the power to accomplished more with much less energy and struggle.

Some might call this a fall from grace, but I like to know it as “falling into grace.”

Being at Peace

When we use the term “Being at Peace,” we acknowledge peace as something we are or feel is within us. We sense a lightness of our soul and are in a place we can relax.

This quote “There is no way to Peace. Peace is the way,” shows us that peace comes first not last. Our truest self is perfect Peace.

Rather than striving for things all our lives hoping to find peace, reverse this and be in a state of peace letting lofty goals shift into a way of being.

In a state of peace, we need less and often find more. As we practice a life of peace, we uplift ourselves, and those around us. We create a new lighter self, releasing that which burdens us.

The key to healing is to find this lightness, just being yourself.

Oprah & Deepak offer 21 day Meditation “Shedding the Weight”

, and spare great messages in their 21 Day to inspire and help open the door for change.

Shedding the Weight” is their theme and with spring upon us, what better way to energize. Click on the image below to start Day One today!

 

The Breeze

I was in meditation this weekend and through stillness and deep awareness, I noticed my physical body different or removed from where my consciousness was. This was not an out of body experience and is a very common state for someone who meditates regularly. What this can offer us (me in this case) is a sense of the density or heaviness we might feel or carry in our body. Take away gravity, which is something, everyone on earth encounters and we experience how our body feels to us. This will often reveal patterns of tension and heaviness in our bodies due to limiting or reducing the flow of energy.

Let me roll the clock back just a bit to a warm day last summer. I was walking in a busy area of Ottawa and ahead of me was a young woman possibly in her early twenties. What I notice about her and has stayed with me since was the way her body moved. Every cell in her body from her head to toe was living an individual expression and supporting each other. There were no “needy” cells or groups of cells looking for attention by holding or gripping. Her body floated gracefully, shoulders, arms, and fingers swishing as if completely free. Her torso, hips, legs, and feet moved toward each new step without any regret as if everything was new and exciting. I remember her as “The Breeze” because she moved effortlessly as a physical being.

We have all encountered people like this woman and many of us feel the same way at times. Maybe we have been on holiday and have unwound, stepped back from our daily routine long enough to release our tension and heaviness.

Unwinding the spring and letting every cell in our body dance freely can be a challenge. Becoming “aware” of our distractors and overwhelm is key to stabilize and uplift us in the “now” (our current moment) but also has a cumulative effect on feeling better long-term.

We have all heard the term “go to the breath” or “let the breath be your guide,” and the breath really is a remarkable tool. Once a person masters a few simple breathing exercises they quickly find themselves much more in charge of challenges brought forth in daily life. It becomes easier for us to shift our focus to a state of calm of lightness.

Here is an example you can try on your own. Next time you are waiting in traffic or in a line and your mind focuses on the delay and you start to become impatient, shift your focus to your breath. Breathe in and out mindfully, lengthening your inhale and exhale to allow any tension dissipate. In just a few breath cycles, you should feel more at ease and clear minded. This is a perfect way to flip the switch and step forward to create your life rather than feeling stuck and helpless.

Taking clearly defined and purposeful breaths will lead to awareness, and through awareness, one is able to discover and release tension. Daily life can plant many little-unwanted seeds to clutter our energy. The breath is an opportunity to pull the weeds and allow our physical and energetic garden to flourish!

Look for future posts on how to engage and expand your breath, something vital to living life.

Here is a link to get you started on what is called “equal” or “square” breath.

sama vritti pranayama

by Tom Kelly